Tuesday, 3 April 2018

Girls become mother of one or more children before attaining legal marriage age of 18


Girls become mother of one or more children before attaining legal marriage age of 18


Jawadhu Hills

Two summers ago, precisely on July 10 in 2016, a 45 year-old man tied the knot to a girl 3o years younger to him. The class X student, who was forced out of the school, was his second wife and one among the hundreds of child marriage victims in Jawadhu Hills.

With no law enforcing agency taking measures to save young girls from the clutches of the child or minor marriages, getting married at the age of 14 or 15 has become part and parcel of the lives of many girls in the tribal villages of Jawadhu Hills.

Over 70 percent of the girls, before attaining the lawful age of marriage of 18 years, have become the mother of one or more children here. However, the marriages are neatly tucked under the cover of the tribals culture and none see any wrong in it. Government officials shrug off the issue, stating that early marriage is part of their culture and lifestyle. 

Shanthi (name changed) had no say when her marriage was fixed with A Dhamodharan of Puliyamarathur village in Anaicut Taluk in Vellore district in July 2016.

She was in class X then, and discontinued from school. Her teacher found that her family had fixed the marriage only after inquiring with her brother, who was in class IV. “The groom was about 45 years-old. His family fixed the marriage with Shanthi as he did not have a child with his first wife,” said the teacher. However, the girl sent back home within a month of the marriage. She was living with her parents now in Korathur village.  

There were many like Shanthi in the 350- odd villages in the 17 panchayats in the hills in Vellore and Tiruvannamalai districts. “Over 70 percent of the married girls are victims of child marriage. They get married between 14 to 16 years,” said P Murugan of Childline in Jamunamaruthur.

They rescued a class XI girl student and XII boy student who married two months ago, he said and adding, “The entire village/community is turning against us when we try to stop child marriage. We even chased and threatened when we went to stop a child marriage in Mandaparai recently,” he said.   

Kumar (name changed), 24, a tailor in Jamunamaruthur, became father of his third child a month ago. His eldest son was studying in class II. “My wife is two years younger to me,” said Kumar. He was 16 years at the time of marriage, while his wife was 14 years. They studied upto class VIII. 

A class VI student in a government tribal residential school said that a girl of her age got married in Kovilandur two months ago. “The groom has been staying with the girl’s house for the last two months,” said the girl.

Inquiry with the locals revealed that if a boy stays in the girl’s house means that they consummated the marriage. “If the girl and the boy like each other, they can get married or stay together (living together) without getting married. It is a totally accepted practice here,” said an official in Social Welfare Department.

Child Line has an exclusive office in Jamunamaruthur to stop child marriages but its performance has been disappointing, said the official. “Last year, they managed to stop only 13 child marriages but we are not happy with the local staff, who belong to Jamunamaruthur. They prefer not to act upon complaints,” added the official.

Calling the data with health department nothing but a smoke and mirrors, a village health nurse said that they randomly entered the age of the ante-natal mother as 18 or above, to keep the records clean. “Here, the girls either lie about their age or not sure about their age. So, we will put 18 or above based on their physical appearance,” she quipped.

However, the block medical officer of Jamunamaruthur, Dr P Ram Manohar, surmising his 22 years of being in service in the hills, said that things have changed. But there is a long way to go to bail out the community from the child marriage and host of health-related issues due to early marriage.

However, there are some positive signs as many victims of child marriage want their daughters and sons to study well and escape the drudgery of the hills. “I want my daughter to study well and go for a government job. My daughter is now studying in class X,” said Kallimuthu and his wife Amutha (name changed) of Kovilanur. They got married when they were 16 and 14 years respectively.

Tribal activist and vice-present Tamil Nadu Adivasi Ammaipukkalin Kuttaiambu Leelavathi said that they have been conducting awareness programme and dissuading the practice of early marriage. However, it still prevails in several tribal communities, particularly in Jawadhu Hills, in the state. 

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32 child married in Jawadhu Hills since 2015. Of them, 13 marriages stopped in 2017. It is less than 10 percent of the total child marriages take place in the hills.  

Girls as young as 13 0r 14 years are getting married. Boys are getting married as young 16 or 17 years. Most of them consummate the marriage.

Two month ago, a class XII boy got married to class XI girl of the same school in Jamunamaruthur, according to Child Line


Theertha Kovil and Perumal Kovil in Alangayam on the foothills of Jawadhu Hills are the hotspot for the child marriage. 

Primary Health Centres in Jamunamuaruthur and Nammiyampattu records average of 45 child birth per month. A majority of mothers are victims of child marriage.
 

Village administrative officers (VAO), police and village health nurses (VHNs) are well aware of child marriages, but cease to act against the ill-practice. Thus encourage the tribals continue with their age-old practice

Health issues due to child marriage - 7 out of 10 children are malnourished in Jawadhu Hills. 40 percent of the tribals have nutrition disorder and suffer from protein deficiency anaemia, according to health department officials



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